Asher Dearing

He/Him/Boy

(at all times, even when sissy)

28 Year Old Old Baby Puppy-bear Boy from the UK In Need of Adoption, Cucking and Regression

Interacting With Me

Pronouns: He/Him/Boy (even when sissy)

Do not interact if you are under 18 years of age.I will block you immediately if you are a minor or make hateful comments. And I will block you if you repeatedly fail to obey traffic lights, respect my identity as a full time baby or Daddy’s ownership of me.Consent Protocol: Traffic Lights> Click Here for Full Explanation <🚦 or “Traffic Light” – If you are sent this, please respond with a traffic light below.
🟢 or “Green” – I’m comfortable, consenting and happy for play to continue.
🟡 or “Yellow”/”Amber” – I’m getting a bit uncomfortable, I need you to change direction, but happy for play to continue.
🔴 or “Red” – I’m very uncomfortable and need play to stop immediately.
🔵 “Blue” – I am incapable of complying with request/play even if I want to.RespectYou can respect my baby identity by not exposing me to content that you wouldn’t expose a baby to, such as swearing, slurs or sexual language.Please do not use familial terms (Such as “Daddy”, “Mommy”, “Big Bro”, etc) or terms that imply ownership of me (eg. “My Baby Boy”) unless I have granted you that right.Please also try to consider my limits (further down), however as long as you obey the traffic lights then that’s fine.If you're here because you sent me a DM, please send me a green light in our DMs to show that you’ve read this.

Helping Keep Me Submissive

These are only if you consent to doing so.If you are a grownup please tell me when you first DM, I must speak to grownups and use appropriate titles such as Sir/Mister and Miss when speaking to them, I should be polite to bigger kids and play nicely with all littles I talk to.I’m really responsive to teasing and being embarrassed and it helps me feel very submissive, if you like teasing littles and making them all blushy and subby please feel free to do so with me as much as you like. Tease me about being a baby, tease me about being too little for big boy things like sex.As a baby that needs coddling, I should only use terms that infantile all the sexual things I feel, please only use words like "Squirmy", "goo goos" and "Nubby" if you want to discuss my coddling or teasing.

My Limits

Soft Limits:
Can be around, not particpating, but are damaging to my headspace
- Latex
- BDSM style leather/chains/neopreane (inc pup hoods)
- Basically anything involving other people's genitalia
- HypermessHard Limits:
Can't be around
- Breath Play
- Overt Public Play
- Pay to Play/Findom/Financial Exploitation (Financial Control is OK)
- Scat play (outside the diaper, trying to get used to open nappies)
- Vore (both gore and not gore)

About Me

My name is Asher Dearing, a 28 year old (biological age), 6 month old (true age) adult* baby* from the west midlands in the UK.As a baby, I am both extremely soft and cuddly and incredibly submissive, I need a lot of attention and care and love all of the wonderful emotions my baby brain gives me, I love platonic intimacy, I am a total cuddle munchkin and will basically cuddle with anyone who asks as long as I feel comfy with them.I also love to be teased and blush, be embarrassed and feel like I have no control, being helpless and dependent on grownups, I am happiest when I am a baby and when I am at the bottom of the pecking order, submitting to and obeying grownups and biggers, being cared for and given guidence. I crave praise and making the grownups smile, I want to be a good boy for them be well behaved and obedient.I love orgasm control, to me feeling needy, desperate, helpless and submissive will always feel better than any orgasm, it is an important goal of mine to completely surrender my orgasms forever to a Mommy or Daddy and remain locked in chastity forever, safe and orgasm-free, submissive, needy and baby-brained.As I regress to the age I know I really am, my behaviours are starting to match, I love to play with the most babyish of toys and watch the most babyish of shows. I love to babble, crawl and coo and giggle when I’m a happy baby.Sometimes I like to be a little princess and wear lots of pink and frilly clothes, while I am a sissy and I feel blushy and like to be teased about it and feel more vulnerable. Wearing feminine clothes as a male should never be seen as degrading or “lesser than”. I also still use male pronouns (He, Him, Boy) but do like being called “princess” or other softer feminine pet names but never female pronouns (She, Her, Girl).If you are female (or FtM on hormones) and between the age of 20 and 35 in the UK, we are looking for a momma to help care for me and breastfeed me, please DM me if you’d love to have a baby who will never stick their fingers into a plug socket :PIf you are male, I am also looking for a Daddy between the ages of 20 and 35 in the UK as well. Bisexual is preferred as I would love to have both a Mommy and a Daddy, keeping me helpless and cucked. But I would also be happy with a gay daddy too for the right person.I am also looking for kinksters local to the west midlands to babysit me when required, pending approval and vetting, but if you think you’re a trustworthy grownup who would like to babysit me on occasion, feel free to DM.*I receive notifications about DMs on most platforms, but the best one is Telegram, my DMs are always open, but you must read the “Interacting With Me” page first.* See glossary.

My Kinks

Littlespace/Ageplay - Acting as an age younger that your physical and being treated as such, often involving care and structured rules from a dominant and baby paraphinalia such as baby toys, dummies (pacifiers) and baby clothes in adult sizes.Total Power Exchange - A Dynamic in which the dominant is given full control (minus limits and safewords) over the submissive's life, the dominant makes all decisions for the submissive.Nappies (Diapers) - Wearing adult sized nappies and using them for wetting and messing (for some). This often pairs with the care aspect of age play as nappy wearers often like being patted on their padded bottom, having them checked and changed like a baby.Teasing and Embarrassment - Safe teasing and being embarrassed in front of others who are consenting to remind the submissive of their place and make them blushy and embarrassed. Positive language only, no degradation, humiliation, using words like "disgusting", "pathetic", etc.Chastity (Cages) - Wearing a locked phsyical device around genitals that prevents sexual stimulation and activity. This allows a "Key Holder" to control access to sexual stimulation and orgasms.Rules - A dominant setting a list of rules for the submissive to follow.Discipline - When rules are broken or submissive misbehaves, harsh punishment is given that is designed to make the submissive regret breaking the rules or misbehaving, including spankings, restriction of privileges, timeouts, mouth soaping, etc.Soft Bondage - Use of soft restraints such as segufix, mittens, spiked booties and locked clothing to restrict movement and ability.Tickling - Being tickled, not much to explain about this one.Adult Nursing Relationships - Breastfeeding between two consenting adults.Hypnosis - Using amateur hypnotherapy to induce kinky effects, setting trigger phrases people can use to control a subject and training a subject in new behaviours.Coddling - Completely removing sexuality from a little's life, through the use of orgasm denial, denying access to pornographic media and sexual content.Cuckolding - Having sex with others while denying a submissive access to sex.Privacy Denial - Removing a submissive's privacy using surveillance (such as parental control apps and nanny cams) or supervision (supervised by dominants or getting others to supervise in dominants stead such as babysitters), or submissive having no say in who sees them nude or in compromising positions.Praise - Getting praised for submission and obedience.Pet Play - Taking the roll of a dominants pet, such as a dog or cat and engaging in animal like behaviours and pet like acts of care.

Glossary

Adult - A human who has a physical age of 18+.Infant - A human who is in the first few years of life.Grownup - A human who is independent, mature, and is far older and superior to babies.Baby - A human who is dependent on the care and control provided by grownups and has regressive needs and behavioursCoddle(d) - To completely deny sexual stimulation and content to a Adult Baby because they are too little for it. Coddled babies are kept in nubbies for their own protection and denied orgasms that might overwhelm their little minds.Guardian - A Guardian is a title given by a Daddy/Mommy to grownups he has vetted and trusts with my safety and care, a Guardian has full authority over short term decisions, and are only superseded by Daddy/Mommy.

Coddled Language

Goo goos - EjaculatingCummies - Orgasms, things that little boy's like me shouldn't have.Nubby - Chastity Cage, safety device for coddled babies that protects them from having orgasms they aren't ready for, and will likely never be.Special Time - Having sex or masturbating, too grownup for coddled babies.

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Redefining Babyhood

taking back the term and living our truth.

The term adult baby was one of the first terms coined by psychologists who observed the phenominon of Adults who needed to return themselves to babyhood. To live as babies, who felt a need to be treated as babies, to wear adorable baby clothes, and use nappies (tl: diapers), dummies (tl: pacifiers), baby bottles and so on.However, this term was often used with poor connetations, and very much felt to me like it has been used in the same or similar connetation as "Man Baby" both by older, less enlightened phychologists studying the matter and by the media who have represented us.Redefining TermsTo reclaim this word, I have personally redefined how I personally use 4 specific words, and if you find this re-defininition helpful, I invite you to do the same. These 4 words are: Adult, Grownup, Baby and Infant.AdultAn adult is a human being who is 18 years of physical age or over, and has the mental development and capacity to knowingly and legally consent to sexual and kink related activities.GrownupA grownup is a human being who is mature, independent, has hobbies and desires and self identity that are typical of someone who is physically over 18 years of age and does not desire to be treated or identify as a younger age.BabyA baby is a human being who possesses a need to be cared for in a parental mannor that is typical of human beings within the first few years of life, and a deep, mental need to wear nappies and utilise other items such as baby clothes, dummies, baby bottles, have a nursery and so on.InfantA human being who is within the first few years of life, not mentally developed.Why I Think This HelpsUnder this framework, Adult purely references a person's physical age, and Baby purely references, desires, mental needs and identity. As such, the term "Adult Baby" takes on a similar connotation as that of "Newborn Baby", they are both babies, but of different ages and stages of physical development. An adult baby remains an adult regardless of how regressed or "little" they feel as long as they are capable of understanding the conseqences of what they consent to and are mentally capable of withdrawing said consent as needed.Different babies at different stages of development have different needs, adults have a different biology and therefore have different needs, including that of a fully functional reproductive system. As such, an adult baby needs other forms of care than that of an infant baby, and vice versa, an adult baby needs less care in other areas than an Infant Baby would, such as being able to walk about on their own, having different nutritional needs and not having to worry about them licking or sticking fingers into plug sockets.Also, I have found that it helps me both identify as the baby that I am, but also live within the reality that I have an adult body, and there is no friction between my identity and my reality.I am a Baby, just an Adult one.